Icebreaker – n. a ship specially built for breaking navigable passages through ice.
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And now for the story behind this post…
This post was initially inspired by an article about executive compensation consultant Pearl Meyer (hat tip to Stacey Petrey). Ms. Meyer sold her business, Pearl Meyer Consulting, and its name (her name), a decade ago. As I read her story, I kept wondering — what would it be like to be stripped of my name?
In an interview with Forbes, she explains, “For over a decade, I declined all offers to sell my firm
Ms. Meyer's experience again reminded me of a passage from The Zookeeper's Wife, a biography of Jan and Antonina Zabinski, Polish Christian zookeepers horrified by Nazi racism who managed to save over three hundred people, author Diane Ackerman's writes movingly about Polish émigré Eva Hoffman’s psychic earthquake of having to shed her name in order to save her life: “Nothing much has happened, except a small, seismic mental shift. The twist in our names takes them a tiny distance from us—but it is a gap into which the infinite hobgoblin of abstraction enters.”
Each of us has the privilege of ‘saying the name' of all those with whom we interact, especially our children. It's a simple, but effective — and benevolent — means of helping others dare to dream.