Said Lois McMaster Bujold, "You have to be careful who you let define your good." Have you ever had the experience of going clothes shopping, and trying on one, two, even ten pieces of clothing that looked great on the rack, but terrible on you? I have. Did any of the following then cross your mind? 1. (On a good day) It's no wonder TLC's What Not To Wear is so popular -- women really do have trouble finding the right thing to wear. 2. (So-so day) I think I'll stick with buying shoes or jewelry; they usually fit.