I freely admit it.
I love watching American Idol; I've even blogged about Melinda Doolittle.
But the fact is, my love of American Idol isn't novel or newsworthy; I'm one of 30 million plus.
So here's what I want to know:
Why do I — why do WE — love American Idol?
Because it's a hero's journey.
Right before our eyes we see hundreds of thousands hoping to be called to adventure, to be chosen to go on a hero's journey, and to obtain the boon. As we watch (and participate by voting), we find pieces of ourselves mirrored in the contestants, feeling as if we too are on the hero's journey.
Which is one of the reasons that Melinda Doolittle has become the frontrunner.
Sure, she can sing, she can really sing. Whether “My Funny Valentine” or “I'm a Woman”, Melinda has unexpectedly moved us. Yet, she doesn't seem to know how good she is.
And so we begin to wonder, if Melinda doesn't know how talented she is, maybe we don't know how magnificent we are.
And if seemingly all-powerful Simon has discovered her, maybe we too will be discovered.
And, most especially, if Melinda, even with her quirks, can be called to adventure, and possibly obtain the boon, maybe we, with our own quirks, can be chosen too.
And isn't that a longing we all have?
Do you agree? Why or why not?
P.S. Whether Melinda wins American Idol or not, she will have been successful. By conquering her fear and insecurity, she chose to move to the center of her own life — to be the hero of her story.
P.P.S. Our desire to be the one called to adventure (the chosen one) also explains why I was disappointed when I wasn't selected to go on Oprah's Miraval week, no matter how deserving those selected are. Just take a look at the story of Jennifer West.
Yes, in sending in the pOstcard I chose to be the hero of my story. But that longing we have for the spotlight to alight on us, to be chosen — it runs deep!